The simple life.....

This week was kind of a rough week for me. I had some issues with 2 good friends and we have been cold shouldering each other. The thing is I was the one who instigated the arguments & hence I recover a lot faster than them. I always feel justified to voice my dissatisfactions after a while of keeping quiet. I`m always for good ol` fashioned honesty. I also value friends but it looks like the emotion is not reciprocated. I keep telling myself to treat people the way they treat me but I can never bring myself to be so cold or rude or unreliable or pretentious to my friends no matter how i am treated by them. Sigh. I`m gonna try again though. The issues :
1. telling me they`ll do something but not meaning it ( just tell me you won`t do it )
2. giving me short one word negative replies without any explanations (we`re friends not strangers, i deserve a reason, however short )
3. just plain avoiding or making me feel invisible and then pretending that things are fine
4. just keeping quiet about your own personal life but keep asking questions about mine
5. keeping mum about everything & i have to find out things via other friends or other people`s blog ( i hate having to ask friends about things, just offer the info plse ) 6. plain pretence or `make dunno`
To save myself some hardship & future pain, I will have to start treating people the way they treat me. So don`t be surprised if I become as cold, as pretentious, as rude as you are. If I do, you probably deserve it. *Cheers*