How to change to suit your surroundings

Sometimes we are plucked from our comfort zones & place into new duties or relationships or places. We either sink or swim then. This plant changes the size of its leaves & colour according to where it is. Originally from the jungle, it`s ability to accomodate weather, water level, sunlite intensity & temperature is amazing... i think it`s secret is its innate determination to survive no matter what.....

What if we come back from the office tired out from work & we are greeted by screaming kids & a screeching wife ?

What if instead of the peace & quiet you yearn for, you are forced to babysit while you wife goes out shopping ?

What if instead of allowing you some time to pursue your hobbies, she threatens or tongue whips you into submission & stay-at-home-to-be-with-me instead ?

It`s happening to some friends i know & it`s manifesting itself in some pretty ugly ways in the relationships........